It's all over but the cryin.

I'm surely not the one shedding any tears. Mark. So Sorry. Well not really that sorry. He called on Saturday afternoon. The middle of the night for him. I was doing another family event. Exactly like the one that he hung out for all day while he was here. I was just about to get it all started and my phone rang. I hesitated answering it. Perhaps things would be different if I had ignored it. I don't think so.


I am sure I will come off sounding like a complete ice queen in this post. It's more along the lines of self preservation, than pure meanness.


His tone was that of a whiny toddler. I asked how he was doing and he whined some more. I understand that he isn't in the greatest of places right now. What shall I do about it? He volunteered to go, he wasn't forced. His days are always rotten. The first phone conversation I tried to pep talk him into a better mood. I tried really hard. He is one of those people that thrives off someone feeling sorry for them. It's the neediness. He knew that I was at an event. I tried really hard to listen to him. I can't put off 10 people that have paid us to participate, just to coddle him. ICE QUEEN. He asks why I haven't returned or sent any emails. I haven't gotten a single one from him. I have sent 2 that have never been replied to. Cue a temper that I have never seen him have. He starts raising his voice about how I am lying, that I have gotten them and don't have the decency to reply. He says that he can tell I have opened them. Um. No. I honestly haven't gotten any of them. Which really is a bummer because my first plan was to blow him off with an email. Damn. I listen to him rant, I tell him once that I wouldn't lie about something so trivial. He raises his voice a bit more and tells me that it is bullshit that I don't' have any respect for what he is doing. Um. OK. He is getting louder by the minute. I have people trying to talk to me to get everything started. He is yelling about hearing me talk to someone and that he knows that I am cheating on him. How the hell is it cheating when we only knew each other for a couple of days. There was never any talk of relationships. Not a pretty conversation. I really hate being called a liar. Whatev. I hope he calls me again so that I can tell him I am done with all or his bullshit.-V