I shall begin at the beginning. BBB and I have been talking quite a bit, on the phone mind you at least 4-6 hours away from each other at all times. Not my choice or his really just the way that it is working right now. I have told him in no uncertain terms that I am not waiting around for him. He says that he understands and that I shouldn't have to wait for him to get his stuff in order. He said that at the time when he didn't think that I had anything else going on. R and I talk a couple times a week, his situation is a bit messier. I usually see UFC once or twice every couple of weeks. I am not lying or hiding anything from anyone I just choose my battles. Case in point Friday night.....I was planning a night in as I had been running crazy for the last couple of days and needed some down time. UFC called and asked if I would like to grab a beer with him. We agreed to meet at the bar. BBB called while I was on my way there. I told him that I was going to meet a friend for a beer, he acted a bit bent out of shape, asking what happened to my night in. I told him I changed my mind (all the explanation that I needed to give him.) Again I am not hiding one from the other just that it is none of their business what I am doing. Last I checked there was no exclusive thing with any of them. BBB text me three different times and I didn't answer, then he called just to see if I was alright. (sure!) I got the third degree on why I was not texting him back. Short version is that UFC asked me a question not knowing that I was on the phone and then apologized for interrupting and BBB hit the freaking roof! I simply reminded him of the conversation that we had a couple of days ago, and you guessed it he didn't mean it the way that he said it then! I am standing my ground why shouldn't I have my cake and eat it too? I have been put in this certain situation to have more that one guy interested and I will be damned if I am going to cut and run! I have a great time with R, Ufc & BBB. I don't have to choose one just yet.-V
3 years ago
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if you get yourself a couple of beaus with vowels as innitials, you might be able to make a real name! for this purpose I suggest you dump "bbb" like a hot potato!;-)
Thank you for the input as always bulldog, fyi bbb's real name is Andrew. lol. Does that help his situation?-V
RIGHT! "A" can stay, as long as he realises he is on VERY thin ice, (this is unless I am very much mistaken, his second warning), and you retain "bbb" rights for scrabble puposes in perpetuity, (the scrabble thing isn't really a deal breaker).
I have been trying to get her to name one of them Bob for a very long time. I get confused by all of this but I think I am getting the hang of it. It helps that she is across the room and I can say.. "now what is this?".
C
oh and.. you have to go down a couple of entries to find the link to the cat/dog quiz. I'm not sure if it's accurate on the feline/canine qualities of my persona but I think it knows for sure exactly what I told it.
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you should call them ALL "brian", it would make my life so much easier if everybody was called "brian". by the way i am 30% dog, 70% cat!!!!!
I think you're playing this one very well V, the valuable lesson here is that the less available you are, the more they want you!
Maybe I should take a note from your book and try playing it a bit cooler... but it's rather difficult if they are closer than 4-6 hours away!
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Newbie, I would like the "butterfly" thing that you have, I am just not feeling it with any of these guys yet. The fun thing is that Andy (bbb) is 4-6hours away. Jason (ufc)lives in the same town as me. R lives 2-3 hours away. The problem that I have is if a guy is around all the time I get all crowded and end up getting rid of him. I kinda like the way things are going so far.-V
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