I tried to be nice. I tried to let him know that I need space. He said he would give it to me and then he sat right on top of me. Literally!
My family is going to plan another intervention because they seem to think that I am giving up something real great! He does a few nice things for me and they are on his side? WTF? Sure he is a nice guy. But when the thought of him touching me gives me the willies? Something is just not right! I don't give a shit what they say.
I tried to make it work. That's when I should have seen the problem right at first. Having to try and make it work when we have only been out a few times.*palm to my own forehead*
He brought a movie over last night. I was sitting on the couch, still nursing the hangover from the night before. He starts telling me about his day. Every.little.detail. IE-I went and had coffee today and while I was there I played a little ball with the managers daughter and she is so cute and she said this and she said that and blah blah blah. (I wasn't listening) Then I went and painted two bathrooms for work and I think that I got high off paint fumes. I totally had a headache. Then I went to the massage place because I thought a massage would be nice. (he is layed off work right now doing odd jobs for MY FRIENDS and FAMILY to make some money) So I say out loud because I can't stand the sound of his voice any longer, "like you have the money for a massage? Duh." I know that it is none of my business what he does with his money, but for the love of god if I have to listen to him complain about not having any and potentially losing his apartment, I can't help but call him an idiot!
So he just text and asked me if we are going out to dinner tonight. Fuck! I don't want too!
Please help me figure out how to get rid of him, in a nice way. Because all I can think of are mean!-V
3 years ago
6 comments:
Why do families always try to save the world with interventions? Some people need to be left to live their lives.
Finish with him the mean way. If he's as 'nice' as you say he is it'll do him a favour. Noone wants a 'nice' guy, so with any luck it'll leave him bitter and twisted... maybe then you might want him back!
plus, there is no 'nice' way to get rid of people.
As he seems so fond of including hugs and kisses in text messages I'd suggest the 'you're dumped' message to his phone. The beauty is in the simplicity. (the old ones are generally the best ones)
A burger will give you space, but not in your stomach.
ask him if he has a penicilin allergy, then let him "catch you" dropping some ground up aspirin into his food. (and dont lend him any money).
One Hypo- I Think my family might have finally, figured out that I can run my own life!
B- There is nothing hotter than the "bad boy"! The thing is that Jason is already twisted, just not the right way...I ended up going the mean route. I think that I might have even gotten rid of him! Thank goodness!
Bulldog- How did you know what my next move was going to be? Luckily for him he got the hint before I had to do it!-V
Just tell him what you're thinking - honesty seems to be a pretty good policy when it comes to getting rid of people as at least then if you have a change of heart, you can explain yourself honestly as well.
I think it has a lot to do with pressure - if people really want you to get with someone your independent teeny self comes out from deep within and shouts "I don't WANNA!"
Love to C - glad she's back!
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