I definitely think men dance to a different drum than us. Just say what it is your thinking man! For hell sake.
In my opinion intellect and mystery can make a man far sexier than a gorgeous man who walks into a room with none of that. I also find small flaws can sometimes be attractive. Although mystery is only fun until you want to know what they are thinking right NOW!
One friend asked me once if I thought a guy was cute, I told her "How would I know, I'm dead!" I think the saying is supposed to be "I'm not dead, I'm just married." From then on she teased me saying "Oh I forget, You're dead" or "I don't think you're really dead, are you?". I'm as dead as I want to be.
Strange creatures! They say we're hard to figure out but just look at them. I think they assume we just know. Well if we were all mind readers we would definitely float on a different plane than them. We wouldn't be famous but we would probably be doing a lot of face slapping. Oh, mind reading, I don't even want to think about that. I prefer the mystery. Unless of course, I just want to know.
V, I hope things are looking a little brighter today, the gray skies and pouring down rain sometimes don't help but at least we aren't melting into puddles underneath our desks again! I really think the emotions of yesterday are making some of this harder on your brain than it should be. A little kicking, punching, throwing chinese stars, monkey elbow, crouching tiger will help. That and a good night's sleep. Don't worry, whatever it is, is out there and as soon as you forget about it, it will show up in your life like a Chia Pet! All hairy, and sprouty and unuseful. Just kidding about that part but it only happens when you don't care. Oh, and the tricky part is you don't get to decide when you don't care.
Just a thought I had.
V. smile!
C
oh and P.S. come to work ;) I hate it here all alone!
3 years ago
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Thank you so much for the thought. I am really glad that you came back to our blog. I like the fact that you can read my thoughts and emotions, and make me calm down and think things through. Thank you for the encouragement and your patience with me I am so grateful. I know by now that you are the rational voice that I should listen to more often. Thanks-V
Ya see C, all the stuff you just wrote? And you think MEN are hard to understand? Lemme say the same stuff you just said where a man would understand it.
"Gawwdd women are hard to figger out! Anyway I just want to corner one of 'em some day in a telephone booth, any woman'll do! Get well V.
That's a little bit scary SH!!!
C
Hurray, you posted! And a bit of a cracker as well.
It's lovely to get a perspective from a married lady on these sorts of things as it goes to show that there is a way of making Mars and Venus work together.
And I may have to steal the phrase "hairy, sprouty and useful". That's the kind of man you marry!
How do you know SH writ that??
Thanks Newbie. Sometimes it's boring to post about waiting up for my teenager to get home or my crazy puppy/devil dog.
SH, hmmm something in the way you font.
C
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